How To Make A Long Distance Relationship Work

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Here are your keys to staying together in your long distance relationship;

Define what you are? 

Talk about what’s to be expected from both of you. Define what you’re doing. Just casually dating? Soon to be engaged? Boyfriend / girlfriend? What exactly are you.

Next, are you exclusive? Is one of you willing to relocate if things get more serious? I know some of these questions may be awkward. But the more things are understood, the longer you will last, trust me.

Relationships suffer due to lack of communication. Never because of too much.

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Stay in contact everyday

This doesn’t matter how. Text, phone, email. I use Skype because I travel so much. Be involved as much as possible with his or her daily lives. Just as if you lived together.

How to make a long distance relationship work, Mix it up

This is huge. Do things other than communicate together. Just talking can get real boring, with anyone. Take full advantage of technology. Use the video phone, and web cams, have phone sex, watch a movie together or zoom in on Fido’s nostrils.

Use the kids as props. Love letters and cards are always great. Communication doesn’t have to be long, in fact I keep things short and pithy. Text the days triumphant moment or failure.

Stay Positive

Try to keep things on the positive side. I understand this can’t always happen. But leave out some of your bitching because you simply had a bad day. Let's face it being apart is tough. It's much easier for couples to stray.

This is why communication needs to be positive. Make your significant other look forward to your daily ritual of engagement. She might of had a bad day, now is the time to reverse that with some exciting news, a get to together plan or just some good old humor!

Don’t ever forget important dates

Guys, I’m talking to you. Missing her birthday or even your six month dating anniversary gets compounded in a long distance relationship. Use reminders if you have to.

Finally, Make a Plan

Always have a plan for your next rendezvous. This is the thread that keeps the relationship going. I don't care if the next flight to see each other is in 3 months, it needs to be booked so it may be talked about and anticipated. I like doing this before I leave her.

This is how to make long distance relationships work. Tons more to come!

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